33% of Women Dating Online Will Have Sex On The 1st Date!

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Lady Doctor's Research Reveals That Women Are Horny Creatures Yes, that's right according to Dr. Paige Padgett of the University of Texas' School of Public Health, 1 in 3 women who date online get busy on the 1st date. Padgett's 2007 study was published the highly regarded journal, "Research & Social Policy, which is a journal affiliated with National Sexuality Research Center.

Padgett's study involved 740 women who had placed online ads seeking men. The results of the study were quite compelling. Padgett found that over 30% of the women engaged in sex on the 1st date. And more surprising, of those women that had sex, 77% reported not using a condom during 1st date sex.

Virtual Intimacy Theory Padgett's conclusion was not that these women are merely sluts. Rather she discovered that women who would otherwise be cautious may engage in unprotected sex because they are lulled into a sense of virtual intimacy.

Dr. Padgett reasoned that the "virtual intimacy" was created by the disclosure and exchange of personal information through frequent e-mail and telephone calls. The women revealed information about their backgrounds, sexual preferences, and their likes and dislikes with the men they eventually slept with on their 1st date.

It was this exchange, says Padgett that fostered the "virtual intimacy". Women developed a sense that a relationship already existed (even if it didn't) which encouraged sexual intimacy at a faster rate than ordinary.

So What Does This Mean For Gents? The take home here is: Start Online Dating Today! You'll save money as it's cheaper than going to clubs & bars and you'll get laid on the 1st date 33% of the time. But make sure you use condoms.

My take on Padgett and her study: Her interpretation of the data is overly paternalistic and paints women as helpless creatures taken in by men that create a sphere of "virtual intimacy". Bullshit!

Let's Use A Little Common Sense To Distill The Padgett's Study. Give women the credit they deserve: They know what they want. Women are looking for attractive mates who meet their dating qualifications. They select one or more candidates from the innumerable men that email them. Lastly, they query the candidates to determine if the man in question meets their dating qualifications. If so, it's sexy time!

If you really examine what's going on here, you'll realize that it's the women pressing the fast forward button on the sexual relationship. The women in the study (and all online women daters) want to learn as much about a potential mate as possible, whether by email or over the phone before meeting face-to-face.

Why? Easy: to convince themselves to engage in sexy time as soon as possible. When a woman becomes convinced that a man meets her dating criteria she will have sex with him. Dr. Padgett's study reveals that the women had determined that they would have sex with their dates right out of the gates before their face-to-face meetings. The women had gathered enough info to make this determination before even seeing their dates in person!

How To Use Padgett's Study To sum up, women love sex as much as men. They, however, take a substantially different approach than men. And this is the most important fact that I've learned from my own online dating experiences, which is supported by Padgett's work: Women must first convince themselves that you meet their dating qualifications and that you are a Quality Man.

Not understanding this fact leads many guys to shoot themselves in the foot. They wrongly believe that they need power, fame, or money to have success with women. My secret that is supported by Padgett's work: To be successful in online dating requires only that do not disqualify yourself. Women have dating qualifications yes. Women have all sorts of questions, yes.

However, women only require that you reply to their questions or hold yourself out in fairly open manner in order for them to say to themselves, "Hey this gentleman seems normal, he's available, and he's mine." At this point, they'll grant themselves permission to have sex with you.

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