One Night Stands and the Pick Up Artist II

by: VinDiCarlo
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First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.

You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.

But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.

I look for a few things - first, I notice how they are dressed, how much makeup they have on, etc. If they look like they put a lot of work in to being pretty, it was for a reason.

The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn't always true but is generally the case.

Another thing that you can spot that a woman is looking for attention is when she is being so loud and animated.

Lastly, another good prospect are woman that are looking around the room more than the other girls that she's with. Also a group of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room are another prospect.

These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.

Now you have to take this in mind -- Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.

Just be light, social, and let them know you are interested in meeting them. A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough.

You should not openly discuss to the woman that you are looking to take her home and get her into bed. Because, if you talk about that, you're putting a woman to a point where is to agree to implicitly bang with you.

Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

This is against her "rules" and will force her to keep you at a distance. You're also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.

The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.

You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.

This is how it will works although it may sound that counter intuitive.

You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.

Some will and some won't, and what you should know is to figure out and proceed to get them.

You don't want to put a lot of effort and time with the wrong girl or to pick the right girl and then mess it up after a very long interaction.

It will just be a waste of time.

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