How to Make Meeting Women Fun and Easy - Part I

by: VinDiCarlo
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Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?

READ ON if you answered YES those questions.

I'm not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.

You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.

Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.

You must have the courage in the way you approach.

First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

Not to mention there are much higher standards for men's behavior than women.

(Don't get me started on that...let's just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")

That can be debilitating, especially if you don't have an "extroverted" trait.

... I have encountered a client that has a problem of "extroversion fatigue."

I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.

Before I started to teach myself about pick-up, and then found myself being mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

I would take a break and rest!

I am working hard than I was in my full time job instead of having some fun and relax in those situation. Now you see how strange it is.

I would go home and be absolutely DEAD

... from TALKING TO WOMEN!

Does that make any sense???

There you see the general dating fatigue. There's an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.

It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!

The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)

All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual frustration)

It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.

I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before.

If you do understand any of this stuff, then probably you are working too hard in your interaction with women.

About the Author

Vin DiCarlo is a professional pick up artist guru, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.  

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