How to Deal with Male Competition when Meeting Women-II

by: VinDiCarlo
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The other important thing I want to talk about is the idea that another man can be more "dominant" than you.

The concept of the alpha male is completely outdated. In the caveman days, the alpha male had real power - he had access to resources like food, and was physically stronger, so he could beat up competitors.

But ask yourself if those power still exist today. Every man can survive on his own if he has the source of income - you probably have an access to food and shelter if you're reading this. You're all set.

Plus, it's illegal to just beat people up. My point is, physical strength is pretty much irrelevant in the modern world.

Attacking another person will always end you up defeated because the police always win.

You are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON! if you are thinking about it.

Just excuse my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???

It makes me mad- I recall all the women I missed out on because I was worried about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that other guys are dealing with same crap!

You are going to look back on all the things you did and didn't do, when the time comes that you're on your deathbed. How painful it is to say "I haven't approached that girl because I was scared of another guy," or "I could have enjoyed being with so many beautiful women if only I have approached them even if they were TALKING to another guy."

I don't want you to be like that.

So let's analyze it deeply. You truly don't understand dominance if you are seeing the other guy as more dominant.

There's a better focus. Rather than to see yourself NOT dominant when you are comparing who is more dominant between you and the other guy.

To be dominant, you must first THINK like a dominant man. And dominant men don't think about who is dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is they are doing or want.

You see a group of girls talking to another guy. Instead of being concerned with who is more dominant between the two of you, just stay focus on the girls.

I rarely even acknowledge other guys, because too often it's proven to be a waste of time. 9 times out of 10 the girls don't even know the guy - they just met him.

Or if they do, maybe ONE of the girls know him, and barely the rest know him.

It's seldom for women to go out with a guy they are dating - normally they will bring a guy that is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.

Besides, if he IS with one of the girls, that means he's NOT with the other girls - they are fair game.

If you are concerned with who's the alpha male, then you are NOT the alpha male by definition. As a matter of fact, it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist in the modern era.

Avoid some assumption, just get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don't allow some random dude to stop you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!

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Vin has something very interesting to say about VH1's Pick Up Artist Exposed show.  

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